Reading "Heart to Heart"

My doctors said my health is stable which is good since transplants are down 29% in the region. It's going to take some time. As long as I'm feeling some strength I don't mind waiting. But, when I don't feel good I'm hoping the surgery won't be too far off. Nevertheless, life is wonderful. My wife and daughter are angels and I love each day with them! My extended family is incredibly supportive and have sacrificed much in our behalf. I'm constantly in awe of the goodness of God and his rich blessings that pour down upon us.

(Picture: My musician friend Josh Waldron checking in on me when I was at the hospital for several days in 2008.)

I should admit though that with all of the medications I'm taking, including my shots and internal IV, I get anxious. I have to stay busy even though I'm extremely tired and usually sitting around. You should know, for those of you at work, or trying to keep up with kids, there is no good television during the day (except for The Price is Right), and all the new movies Hollywood produces make me feel like I'm wasting precious time. So, I have found great happiness doing many other things. When I'm not being entertained by my beautiful 3 year old or enjoying conversation with my angel of a wife I am doing quite a bit of reading, listening to music or great speeches & sermons, answering e-mails, writing notes, running my small record label, and blogging, which I am now addicted too, having just created another blog http://hope4things.blogspot.com

I've been deeply inspired reading the autobiography "Heart to Heart" by one of my spiritual heroes Russell M. Nelson. He is a great leader and teacher in The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. In his earlier life he was a heart surgeon. He’s world renown for his contribution in helping the team of interns and doctors create the first artificial heart lung machine (cardiopulmonary bypass) which makes open heart surgery possible. This machine made it possible for blood to bypass my heart in order for surgeons to remove endocarditis from me in 1986 and receive the Fontan procedure in 1987. This amazing machine will be a major part of my heart transplant and has saved millions of lives. In "Heart to Heart" there is a beautiful description of the body and how it works. He speaks about the heart and how powerful of an organ it is. Listen to Russell M. Nelson's description of a normal heart.

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Meeting the transplant team

My wife and I, along with my parents, met with Latoya, a coordinator with the heart and lung transplant team. We, went over all of the aspects of being listed and receiving a heart. There is a lot of work put into the process. One is required to be in somewhat good condition so the heart will not be rejected. There are about 30 on the list in Utah. And they have over 90% success rate for the first year.

Later, we had a memorable meeting with John Doty, the son of Donald Doty who performed both of my previous operations. He studied at Georgetown and then John Hopkins. He was so positive and expressed his desire to be the one to do the surgery. He said his Dad wants to be there as well. He said, “We are not going to let anything happen to you.” I know they will do an extremely professional job. He is a great man just like his Dad. (Donald Doty served as a general authority Seventy and was a surgical partner with Elder Russell M. Nelson, an apostle in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints)

On Tuesday they will present my case before the board and there will be a vote. I’ll know in a few days if we move forward. But, I'm confident it will go through. Since my first meeting with Dr. Renlund (also a area seventy) I have had various tests and a lot of blood work. These things don’t bother me.

I have received nothing but support from family and friends. People are so good to us. And I thank everyone for their faith and prayers on my behalf. Also pray for the family whose tragedy and sacrifice will create new life and another chance for me and my family.